April 28, 2022

Marina & candy

The M.'s b-day is soon. This being the internet, I won’t say what day in March or April or May. Suffice it to say it is soon
For this post I decided to keep with the musical analogy of the last post that was focused on Lady E. The first thought that comes to mind when you concentrate is oftentimes the most apropos. When I was meditating on M.’s gregarious personality the song “I Want Candy” by the 80s group Bow Wow Wow hurtled into my consciousness. Why?
It's because she’s vivacious, kind-hearted, impulsive and enthusiastic. Every day it is all about playing with other people and having fun. School work…not so much ;)

I mean, that’s in many ways the spirit of rock ‘n roll—wanting to stay a kid, shirk responsibility, and just have fun. Sweet and guitar-heavy pop music like Bow Wow Wow has its place--even if it's a remake of a 60s hit by The Strangeloves. A good song is timeless as recognized by the ear of the listener, no?

Keeping with this musical theme, consider these select lyrics from the aforementioned “I Want Candy
 I know a guy who's tough but sweet
 He's so fine, he can't be beat
 He's got everything that I desire
 He sets the summer sun on fire
 I want candy…

For me, that captures one aspect of Marina’s personality: she is tough but sweet. The toughness I see during her battles with her sister. There is no détente there. What’s more is her dedication to her basketball club and improving her skills. On top of that, her tenacious and calculated negotiations with her mom and me when she really wants something is a riptide of persuasion. Yet the foundation of her personality is kindness toward others, which is the quality that attracts the coterie of friends that we see her hang out with or besiege her phone with messages.
 And, of course, metaphors aside, she really does like eating sweets and candy.

As my youngest Rising Daughter adds another year of growth and development to her life, I am filled with wonder and delight. May she continue onward following this happiness track in the years to come. More mischief and endless enthusiasm ahoy!

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