March 25, 2009

Shiraishi

"Escaping to a warm little island far away from the storm..."

Here is the condensed version of our trip to Shiraishi Island:
Who: the Rising Family.
What: a three-day, two-night trip to Shiraishi Island in the Seto Inland Sea off Okayama prefecture.
Why: it's warm, cheap, accessible-yet-remote, interesting, and populated by friendly locals.
When: the last weekend in February 2009.
Where: (see below.) Only accessible by a 30-minute ferry ride to the island.

The long version:
One benefit of the economic carnage afflicting my industry is that most days I arrive home comparatively early (read: before 1800, no overtime). I also get an extra two days off per month (read: unpaid and compulsory). Looking at this semi-harsh reality in a positive way, and to beat the late February blues, we opted to go for a cheap Friday-Sunday weekend getaway. Our familial fandango was to a small island called Shiraishi, which lies off the coast of Okayama prefecture, not too far from Hiroshima city. It only takes about two hours by freeway to reach Kasaoka, the port where you must board the ferry to Shiraishi.

Since I have an incurable map fetish, I will include these to improve your geographic IQ:
The Chugoku region: try to pronounce some of these places + Google Earth top view of Shiraishi.

The name of the place, "Shiraishi," means "bigass white rock." Well, just "white rock." I first became interested in the island a few years ago, after reading several columns written by Amy Chavez, in the Japan Times. In these columns, she described her life as a foreigner on this small island in a fun and whimsical way, so I wanted to see the place for myself. The other reason we chose to go to Shiraishi is that Okayama prefecture operates a very reasonable hostel, called the Shiraishi Island International Villa. It provides a comfortable place to stay at a very reasonable price of 2,500 yen (about $C30, $US25) per person/night. The villa's design is functional, but has a sparse Japanese chic.
The kitchen is well stocked with utensils and appliances, so you can cook whatever you like. There are only a few restaurants on the island, so we cooked our own feast. The island, we were told, has a population of a little over 600 people.

So what did we do that might interest you?

Once we arrived on the island, it started drizzling a bit. We made a beeline to the villa and were delighted to find that we would be the only guests that night. There is no TV to watch—fine by us . Instead, there is a monster stereo, so we could crank the music and enjoy a tasty family dinner.
Nice.
Freakishly energetic throughout the day due to her new surroundings, Elena went to sleep earlier than usual, at 2130. Naomi and I could then indulge in a few unhurried drinks.
Very nice.

Wanting to read and enjoy the night's silence, I laid out in front of the kerosene heater in the large living room, which is framed by huge windows on three sides. I practically inhaled New Yorkers and old issues of Kansai Time Out. When it is light out, this room provides a wonderful panoramic view down to the small beach. The villa's design is something I'd like to keep in mind for later in life...or when I win the lottery. Naomi and I both declared our love for the shape and functionality of the building, and the view. It has an intriguing way of incorporating traditional esthetics with modern convenience...East meets West in cement and wood.

The next morning, we went strolling around the inhabited part of the island, near the port. We both enjoyed just meandering through old narrow streets and observing how people live. Elena was perched on my shoulders, so she also had a good view of what was going on. Shiraishi was interesting, a window into an older era of Japan, and island life. It seems most people either fish or garden for a living. The people we spoke with -- many of them older folks -- were very nice to us and it appears that the villa has gotten them used to random gaijins wandering around. It was obvious we were staying at the villa, and, as with most small towns, the overall vibe was that everyone knew everyone, and doors need not be locked at night. The lack of any significant noise or road traffic was refreshing. We could let Lady E. roam around at her leisure.

There aren't any tourist attractions, per se, on Shiraishi save for a secluded Buddhist temple called Kobozan. A group of wild cats zealously guarded it. We fed them what scraps we'd brought with us, and Elena gleefully chased them around.



In the afternoon, we went on a hike, taking the trail that started just behind the villa and snakes up all the way to the top observatory, which afforded a nice northern view of the island.
Eventually, the trail led us back to the temple we'd visited that morning, which must have been a metaphor for something, but I am too shallow to pick up on those things until long after the fact! So we played with the stray cats again. Then we started walking along the only highway which circumnavigates the southern tip of the island. There was some road construction and houses here and there. Once we reached the bottom part of the island, there wasn't much to see except for some massive granite masonry, old dilapidated factories and abandoned houses. We must have hiked several kilometers. Elena fell asleep on my shoulder for the last one-third of the walk. It was great to get copious amounts of fresh air peppered with sea smells and some much-needed exercise.

Naomi and I really enjoyed the time to talk and tease each other. It was a good first foray into hiking and related adventures for 2009. And this is in late February! It was at least 15 degrees that day... in your face, frozen Canuck relatives!

March 3, 2009

The Learning Begins

It’s March third, Girl’s Day in Japan, and also the day after our Rising Daughter began attending preschool activities at a local kindergarten. Meet the newest proto-scholar in Hiroshima:
She’s modeling the latest in mandatory fashion from one of the hottest under-six educational hotspots in the city! Confident in her simple schoolhouse chic, Lady E. is resplendent in this gray/black ensemble masterpiece of efficiency and – yes – elegance. The dress and white shirt entrée is topped off by the finest of head accessories. It’s clear Mme. Elena will soon be the eye of the hurricane in kindergarten style.

This reporter caught up with the proud parents of this burgeoning fashionista and asked them a few questions to capture how they felt at the onset of their daughter’s schooling.

Q: Obvious question, folks, but how do you feel now that your daughter has started pre-school?
A1: (Mom) Proud, happy, a little wistful. But she’s only going for a few hours every day. She hasn’t gotten engaged or found her own apartment yet.
A2: (Dad) She don’t need none of that fancy book lernin’. She should just get a job.

Q: What’s your daughter’s first educational goal?
A: (In unison) Kidney and bowel control!!

Q: How’s she fitting in with the other kids?
A: Very well. She’s already extorting money from the other tots while they are doing sing-a-longs. And we get our 10% cut. In general, though, we’re told she is pretty well behaved and not bawling too much.

Q: Where do you see her schooling take her into the future?
A: (Mom) Prime Minister of Japan or Canada.
A: (Dad) Ditto on that. Or both? Microsoft shareholder, definitely.

Q: Last question….Young Miss Lady E, how about a few words for your adoring fans around the globe…?
A: (Elena) Mo-mmey! Fu-wa, fu-wa. Ne-ne ikou? Daddy hen-na no. Blue, red, orange.
(Translation: Mother, I need my fluffy comfort blanket. Let’s take a nap? Daddy is strange. Blue, red, orange.)

Back to you in New York, Dan.

February 3, 2009

Demons Out, Good Fortune In

On February 3rd, we had Setsubun at our apartment. What the heck is Setsubun? According to a book I have on Japanese traditions, it’s an informal ritual that happens the day before the start of spring in the lunisolar calendar (what that is, I’m not sure). On the Setsubun day, people across Japan crack open the doors of their apartments or houses and throw roasted beans out the door.






While they are doing this, they shout:
鬼は外! 福は内
[Oni wa soto, fuku wa uchi]
which roughly translates into “Demons Out! Good luck in.”
It’s a spiritual housecleaning of sorts.

That’s a universal idea, when you think about it—out with the nasty stuff that causes misfortune, in with the purifying fresh air/good stuff. It’s actually a lot of fun, particularly when kids are involved. Bring in the rugrats, and things invariably turn cute, as the following pics of Lady E. and her latest male love interest attest.














He’s wearing a little demon mask. Elena is clearly smitten.

hey
been trying to meet you
hey
must be a devil between us
“Hey” by the Pixies (Doolittle)

It’s still early in the New Year, but our luck has held out so far, when for a lot of people it hasn’t been so great with all the economic problems wreaking havoc around the globe. So I tossed an extra couple of beans in hopes of warding off the sneaky little job-stealing demons. Hopefully that’ll keep ‘em away, and me workin’!

Cheers for now.

January 24, 2009

Year Two: The Elena Supremacy

Lady E. celebrated her second birthday a couple weeks ago. Naomi and I put on a small shindig to mark the occasion. It was just the three of us, but it was truly a fun little party.


Times are tough, though, and few people have the luxury of frivolity and games, especially two-year olds who should be seriously considering their future.

On the event of her second full year with us, Elena has graduated from the training phase and now has to be able to justify her position within this organization. We love her, of course, but in this kind of economy, everyone has to pull his or her own weight and work more efficiently. Innovation, baby! Thus...

Here is Elena’s performance appraisal for year two of her career to date.
Attitude: A on good days; F on bad days
Judgment: B
Control of bowels: C
Articulation of ideas: A (when screaming: F)
Decisiveness: B+
Learning ability: A+
Temper: D-
Eating skills: C (Indecision in this area needs work.)
Farting: A+
Teamwork/social skills: B
Motor skills development: A
Overall character and lovability: A++


On a more fact-based note, once again I’d like to recap the prior year with a few photos and wisenheimer remarks.

January: actually at Miyajima in Dec 2008….because we didn’t have a good photo for January.

February: Still cold, but the Rising Daughter’s cuteness kept us happy and warm.
March: Still in the driver’s seat and working on mastering her plastic cutlery.
April:…in another driver’s seat at a kiddie arcade. (Weather warmer…free at last!).
May: Naomi and Elena coming down the chute at the Aquas Aquarium playground.
June: At the Miyajima Aquarium one last time before it closed for renovations.
July: A new fan in Uncle André (above) and Grandpa (below). Both photos from our visit to Ottawa.
August: At the Mazda Museum’s concept car exhibition.
September: Driving the car…it’s the other guy’s fault.
October: One last visit to the Tivoli Park in Okayama before it closed down. It was hilarious.
October: Swimming lessons…and not terribly happy about it right now.
November: Getting colder, but we still hit the park whenever we could.
December: Christmas Day. Everything in Japan is just a bit smaller than in Canada.

January 4, 2009

Annus Novus

- The Munchkin celebrates her second New Year; her parents frolic during three days o’ fun -

Very Short Quiz
The title says it all: a new year is upon us here in the fair city of Hiroshima. The Rising Family has been in high spirits and busy during this winter vacation. The onset of 2009 has seen us engaging in a slew of activities intended to: (pick the correct answer from (a), (b), (c), or (d).
(a) do our part for the local economy
(b) prevent our beloved daughter from getting bored and thus stir crazy
(c) avoid “all work and no play makes Jack a dull boy” syndrome
(d) allow us to drink every night with little concern for the next morning
Answer is: (d).
OK…maybe (b).

So what things do people in Japan do over the first few days of the New Year that might be of interest to my Canuck relatives and Yankee brethren? Using us as an example, it’s fair to say we had a fairly traditional launch to 2009. Some of the things we did included:

- Waking up at Naomi’s folks’ house in the countryside of Hiroshima prefecture after a rare snowfall. We spent New Year’s Eve with Naomi parents and grandmother, and went back to our apartment in the city on January 1 after her uncle's family came to eat sukiyaki with us.
- Collecting our New Year’s greeting cards sent by family, friends and work-related acquaintances. The idea is similar to the Western custom of sending Christmas cards. We enjoy designing and sending out our New Year's postcards; it’s a tradition that is ever popular despite the Internet. People usually send them well in advance so that the post office can deliver them on January 1. The idea originated decades ago as a simple way to let people know you were still around or, if you had moved, your new address. The cards usually have a personal or family photo, a happy new year personalized greeting, and something featuring the animal of the Japanese Zodiac for the particular year, i.e. 2009 = Year of the Ox. (The Japanese Zodiac is derived from the ancient Chinese concept of a 12-year cycle, each year named after an animal which represents 12 different personalities which that year might exhibit. Words like dependable, methodical, tenacious and modest are used to describe the Year of the Ox. Regardless if there is anything to this Asian tradition, there is only room to improve after 2008, so let’s hope 2009 will be a bullish year!)
Here is the Rising Daughter family version of the New Year’s greeting we sent to our friends.
And here is the less family-friendly version I sent to my close friends who ‘get’ the joke. Hopefully, so will you. - Giving the mighty Laputa its annual wash and cleaning (ablution?) before we headed out to the Toshogu Shrine situated on a hill very close to Hiroshima station. And yes, it wasn't that cold here in the city. No snow so far this year...Yee-hah!
This hill, called Futabayama, is very close to our neighborhood, and there are about seven shrines aligned along its sides which have all been there for hundreds of years. Heading to the shrine for the first time in the New Year is called hatsumode, and people usually go to the shrines to pray for good fortune for the year ahead. Japanese people tend to visit a Shinto shrine or Buddhist temple on the first, second or third day of January because those are those days most people are on vacation from work. At the shrines, you can also buy omamori, which are amulets for good fortune, safe driving, good health etc.
Here we see the Rising Daughter and Naomi at the Toshogu Shrine on January 2. Pretty long line. Crowded as expected, but the weather was great.
- Taking off for a hot spring at a new mall in a Hiroshima suburb. Yep, a modern shopping plaza that has a hot spring...imagine a public bath next to a Sears and you get the picture. And it was a pretty good onsen, too. Naomi tells me that Lady E. generally likes the hot springs (a big, warm pool from her point of view?) but during our visit she apparently was not very happy and almost bolted outside of the ladies’ changing area buck-naked and wailing. Now that would have made an impression.

- We closed off the holidays on January 3 with some fish and chips at a favored Irish pub called Molly Malone’s. Admittedly, this is not a Japanese tradition. But we love their food. We followed this fine meal with another trip through the 'Dreamination' illumination festival on Peace Boulevard that I mentioned in a prior post.
http://risingdaughter.blogspot.com/2008/12/rising-excitement.html


So there it is, loyal readers, the highlights of our start to 2009.
All the best to you and yours this year.

December 24, 2008

Kentucky Fried Christmas Eve

Bet you didn’t know that Kentucky Fried Chicken is a very popular choice for Christmas Eve dinner in Japan.

"Why not give it a try?" I thought, in my continuing quest to explore the interesting cultural twists of my host country. I discovered that the information found on other blogs is true: unless you reserve your Christmas KFC far in advance, you can’t buy it for dinner on December 24 or on Christmas Day. The outlets are just too busy!When I checked this out a local KFC outlet about a week ago, the reservation sheet was completely filled in for a week prior to, and after, Christmas Eve. Lady E. likes chicken, and I am still very curious about the ways Japanese people modify foreign products or traditions to meet local needs, but this rush just to eat yucky tucky is pushing the envelope for me. So we’ll settle for a home cooked meal on Christmas Eve instead.

Background: From what I’ve learned, KFC began operations in Japan in 1970. A life size replica of Colonel Sanders is placed in front of almost all KFC outlets in Japan (see below). But why is KFC so popular on Christmas Eve?

Apparently, the lack of turkey in Japan, and the general lack of ovens big enough to cook the birds in peoples' homes even if they could be purchased, forced a switch to chicken as an alternative. Savvy marketers caught on to these market factors, and since the 1970s Christmas chicken has been intensively marketed as an American-style yuletide dinner.

Just as the same Christmas Eve has become a highly significant date night for young Japanese people on a par with Valentine’s Day (as opposed to spending it with family, which is what new year’s eve is for) the cultural significance of food and fun on Christmas Eve and Christmas itself is markedly different than in North America.

Maybe I’ll try easing sushi and ramen on Christmas Eve when we eventually live somewhere else besides Japan. Nonetheless, a very Merry Christmas from Lady E. and her crew, to you.

December 20, 2008

Rising Excitement

The holidays are approaching and the Rising Daughter is old enough now to recognize that there is something going on; i.e. that old bearded Caucasian fellow in the red suit is everywhere. For Christmas 2008 Naomi and I have been more proactive than in years past when there was just the two of us. Our shopping and wrapping are already done, yet we are still heading to the local malls on weekends with our progeny to sample the Christmas-inspired enthusiasm in the air. I hesitate to use the word ‘spirit’ here…not out of ill will, but simply because the holiday season can get whacky in Japan. Not having the Christian religious underpinnings of the West, Christmas is mostly about having fun, romance (for singles and not-so-singles) and about giving gifts. And if you accept this secular version of Christmas for what it is – and it took me a few years to do that – then you can enjoy a marvelous Nippon-style ‘Kurisumasu’ and add in your own spiritual element as you see fit.


Put simply, in this very Confucian of nations there is absolutely no effort made to coat the commercial nature of Christmas in a veneer of spirituality. The marketing onslaught begins in early November and reaches a crescendo right now. And Japanese people are superb gift givers. It is one of the currencies of this culture. And Christmas is one of the great foreign imported traditions that keep the gifts a-flowin’. Which brings us back to Lady E. and Christmas shopping…

Whenever it has been too chilly to go to the playground (no snow here, back bacon eaters!) we head indoors. Lately Elena has been running amok in the stores, babbling contentedly to herself at times and absorbing the sights and sounds around her. Her wonder and excitement owing to the colors and music of Christmastime is truly infectious. I can almost see the varied images and information physically entering her brain and being processed. It’s more than a little incredible to experience all this with her. Discussing this blog with my uncle Pat last July, he gently reminded me that a few billion people have gone though the complete parenting experience before me. My rational side is fully aware of this, and yet each time the Rising Daughter reaches another stage in her young life I feel as though it is the most amazing, unique thing on the planet and therefore EVERYONE should know. Thus, my desire to impart to you the excitement and wonder of watching her being able to really participate in the Christmas joyride this year.

Besides, I suppose that Lady E.’s healthy and happy development as a little person is the gift that I am most grateful for this Christmas season. And I hope a similar cheerful state finds each and every one you faithful readers of this blog—all six of you. Heh heh.
Here’s a video of Lady E. from last weekend:







Let’s Illuminate!
Hiroshima City also brightens up the holidays by sponsoring a festival of outdoor displays which illuminate the Peace Boulevard, one of the main streets in downtown Hiroshima. It’s a popular spot for families to drive or walk around in the evenings prior to the new year holidays. From late November through early January, the grassy areas along the boulevard’s sides are opened up to companies and organizations to show their temporary holiday-inspired tributes, the outlines of which are decorated with strings of colored lights. This year’s “Hiroshima Dreamination” has a series of very imaginative and colorful exhibits—a huge altar, a merry-go-round, animals, a sleigh, arcing shooting stars, among others, some of which also which use the stationary trees and bushes. The entire illumination festival probably involves millions of lights adorning the displays and it certainly catches one’s attention.
We went to have a look last weekend. You can see (courtesy of chisa1084 on Flickr) the replica of the Hiroshima A-Bomb Dome.


Two shots of us follow. Unfortunately, a cold drizzle forced us to leave the Christmas lights celebration before we could see all the exhibits, but this did not, err…dampen our enthusiasm for the holidays at all.