I
was sizzling in the sun when I had a musical bonding epiphany with my youngest
Rising Daughter, Lady M.
During
Elena’s annual school sports day Marina and I spent several hours under the
morning sun wandering around the tightly-controlled confines of the schoolyard navigating
the hordes of moms and dads, grannies and grampas all vying for the best
videotaping vantage points.
We were already tapped out and decided to take a
break at our humble lunch spot in one of the shaded areas of the school.
Sweaty
and bored, I pulled out the trusty iPod Shuffle and settled into my foldable
chair, when she surprised me by asking to listen along with me. Why not? I thought, and handed over one
of the ear buds. She surprised me by liking the music. Perhaps it was fluky because
the Go Gos oldie “Our Lips Are Sealed” and “Vacation” happened to be next on
the playlist and she instinctively liked these girl-surf-pop tunes, bobbing her
head along with the beat. “We ga da beat,”
she said, cackling.
Then,
“Lithium” by Nirvana, the loud-quiet-loud structure captivating me yet again
and prompted M. to do a head bob, mimicking my own (last seen in 1992). Hmm. A
budding music fan? We shall see. She later lost the ball when Folsom Prison Blues
by Johnny Cash hit our eardrums, prompting her to scrunch her nose in disapproval,
remove her bud, and scamper off to watch another one of Elena’s events.
Such
is the slow tempo to life on these early summer weekends, completely at odds
with the frenzy of weekdays. Same as it ever was.
Beyond
that, Crazy E. has embraced sleepovers so we were the grateful recipient of
time off when she stayed over at a local chum’s house. Payback came in the form
of our hosting her friend the next weekend. All fine and well, but the
chattiness prevented regular sleeping patterns. The next day I found out those eight-year-old
girls who stay up until 0200 the previous night gabbing possess a certain kind
of fury fused to a late-afternoon crankiness that is hard to deal with. Not
pleasant, I can tell you.
“Ain’t no damn thing
perfect, son,”
murmurs Johnny Cash in my ears as I settle deeper into my chair. Just another
summer day.