June 21, 2020

Father’s Day 2020

After more than a decade of dad duty, I know that it’s a rewarding gig. Sure, there’s lots of responsibility and angst. For all that, there’s an equal measure of wonder and pride as your kids develop and taste life. That’s the stage when celebrating your own dad becomes extra sweet. As a dad, you know your own papa has earned it.
My brother Steve-O and I recognize our Dad is a special guy. Because he is still rockin’ it.
I’m not talking about his musical taste (well, George Thorogood & The Destroyers is one good choice, ABBA not so much). Nope. I’m talking the whole enchilada
- Staying healthy and active; golfing his ass off
- Maintaining a robust foreign travel schedule, excepting COVID-19
- Rambling around the continent in his sports sedan
- Still charming the ladies with his singular brand of New Brunswick-infused machismo
- Forever being a stand-up guy with family, friends and neighbors alike
- Still rooting for the Senators and the Ticats
- And yes, still helping and advising his sons. It never ends!

We could go on, but you get the picture. In short, we love and respect our dad. Happy Father’s Day!
In closing, a couple of notes from the sons:

From Steve-O: This picture is from my most recent birthday. Thanks Dad for everything for the past thirty years.

From me: “Shikoku awaits!

June 7, 2020

The Cancun before the storm - Conclusion

Wednesday
In the early morning we boarded a large tour bus that took us to Chichen Itza, an ancient Mayan city complex roughly three hours’ drive west of Cancun. (It’s also one of the new Seven Wonders of the World and a UNESCO World Heritage site.) Three genial tour guides, all fluent in English and other languages, led us. One of them was a Super Fan of explaining ancient Mayan culture in detail. Over the bus’s intercom, she delivered a one-hour lecture about Mayan culture followed by a deep dive explanation of Mayan calendar prophecies that drove many of the passengers to sleep. Others hit the bottle regardless of the early hour. We stopped for mandatory trinket shopping. 
Next stage was a refreshing dip in the deep-water sinkhole, called a cenote in Spanish. Swimming around in the warm aqua colored water while surrounded by imperious rock walls was a unique experience. The tourism foreplay completed, and refreshed by the bathing, we had lunch and proceeded on to the Chichen Itza temple site.
Once there, I enjoyed learning about the history of the place from our guide David in English (and in Spanish). I have enormous respect for those who can switch effortlessly between languages like that. We walked around most of the temple complex in 85ºF “winter” heat. I threatened Marina with human sacrifice if she acted up; it was hot and it had already been a long day.
Next up was a tour of the ball court area of the temple which spawned thoughts of 1970s Battlestar Galactica episodes. We strolled around on our own after that, snapping photos and haggling with the affable stall owners over souvenirs. On the bus ride back to Cancun, it was lights out in the bus with the very dark highway illuminated only by the bus headlights. I told Marina a scary story to keep her awake until we arrived back at the hotel. I didn’t want to throw off her sleeping rhythm.
Thursday
A day dedicated only to aquatic fun was called for with the beautiful ocean and an inviting pool 200 yards from our hotel room. 
The day’s recipe was a mix of pool, then ocean, then back to pool in the morning. Swimming. Frolicking. Napping in the sun. Wave bashing and other aquatic pleasures. 
It tired us out and we retired at a decent time because we knew Friday was going to be great—and our last full day of the vacation.
Friday
Xel-Ha (pronounced shell-hah) is a water sports and nature conservation park in the Riviera Maya. Our full-day visit was in a jungle & ocean paradise. Upon arrival, a short breakfast prevented us from diving right into the nearest inlet. We were soon outfitted with a life preserver, mask and fins to snorkel together in the shallow, translucent seawater. The area was replete with colorful fish. It was our first family snorkeling in the ocean! 
We also took the Discovery Scuba tour, which plunks an airtight hat fed air via lines from the surface (like an old school hardhat diver). Its weight keeps you on the sandy seafloor, no more than 15 feet from the surface. Fish and other sea life swirl around when a diver unfurls plastic bags filled with food. I think I witnessed sheer joy on the faces of the Rising Daughters. It was a successful first experience for them to go underwater. It was also my ploy to get them interested in scuba diving in a few years’ time.
Naomi went off to chase iguanas and see more fish, as did Marina. Elena I vectored off for a bit, and we met up again for the Zip Bike jungle tour. It’s essentially a zip-line suspended about 25 feet above the ground. The route leads through the jungle, rock walls, dark caves and over a cenote. Neat idea.
Xel-Ha is a large park area with the various activities and amenities connected by paths. Despite the ceaseless activity, yes, I snapped a few photos. I managed a shot of the girls by walking a jungle trail above them as they drifted down a river. Elena and I did a zip line splash into the seawater and later took the tower slide—quite an adrenal rush. To finish off the day we went snorkeling together one more time yet still made the bus back at 1800 for our return. Xel-Ha was a relentless sensory assault of jungle greens and oceans blues and a wonderful family day.
To cap the day we went out that evening for Mexican street food. The area had a spring break vibe: not very family-friendly, but it was lively. The sexy dancing girls outside a disco luring the young guys in to be scalped by drink prices captivated Marina. We ate and eyeballed the human frenzy outside the restaurant’s patio.
I checked our return flights. Delta caused me heart palpitations when our flight was canceled because of the snowballing chaos and semi-panic caused by the onset of Coronavirus. It was suddenly real. A Delta agent that I contacted told me that our flight would be OK but to get to the airport three hours early “just in case.”
Saturday - Return to Reality
Our return to Nashville was smoother than I expected. We got up earlier than usual and since we’d mostly packed the night before, and with nothing to do, we all left together for a morning swim. It was to be our last ocean/pool combo. I had noticed that there were fewer and fewer guests around the place over the last few days. Cancun was buttoning down for the virus’s impact, soon to come. We went early to the airport as directed, still wary given the concerns about immigration and the U.S. border shutdown. But it was fine. We waltzed through and waited for about four hours in the terminal with other worried looking, waiting passengers. People were keeping their distance. Facemasks started appearing. I revealed my psychological cards by watching Terminator: DarkFate during the flight back to Nashville.  We landed and…all was well.
It was a great trip filled with enduring memories.
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